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Charlie update 12.1.09

All is well with Charlie. He is a great dog!!

Chews on his toys mostly, but when I leave the back of the car open w/ groceries, he has learned that loaves of bread are fun to run with and shake. Needless to say half of my package of English muffins went to the birds today.

He does get bratty at night if I haven’t walked him enough during the day. We usually walk and play in the morning and then I try to walk or play with him in the late afternoon before dark. Even in the rain, the boy likes puddles.

Happy Thanksgiving!

Poppy blog 11.24.09

http://www.friendshiptails.com/2009/11/thanksgiving-tips.html

Schroeder 11.22.09

Latest on Cheetah

Just want to make sure you all saw this:

Lisa & Brian said...

Current update on Cheetah... she has her forever home! My husband and I are very smitten by her and she isn't going anywhere. My husband had an Australian Shepherd named Elvis for many years when he lived in NY. So, he's familiar with the breed. I went last night and bought her her very own dogbed for the living room so she'll also have some place comfortable to lie down on. She also loved the new toys I got her. I had no idea I'd take to her so quickly! We will send Melanie photos and updates for sure!

November 19, 2009 9:12 AM

Lisa and Brian said...

FYI, she already had a bed up in our room, the second one is to keep her off the new couch.

November 19, 2009 9:19 AM

Belle 11.18.09

Mouse update 11.14.09

He's gorgeous! Cheetah clearly mated with something BIG.

Thought we would send you some recent Mouse photos. He was at the vet the other day and he’s a little under 50 pounds. Obviously we don’t know if he’s done growing but we don’t think he’s going to be too much bigger.

His personality is still very big however! He’s all about fun and play and being happy. He loves to play catch in the backyard and the kids have even taught him some agility tricks. He jumps through hula hoops and tries to play soccer. All said and done though he’s just a big baby because he’s also perfectly happy snuggling on the couch or bed watching television.

The whole family recently had some training (I say the whole family because the humans needed as much training as Mouse). Mouse is walking better on the leash and [daughter], who just turned 10, is actually able to walk him. He’s so strong I swear if we put a sled behind him he could probably pull the whole family! He’s also more comfortable around other dogs. Some dogs he likes, some dogs he tolerates and some dogs he flatout isn’t happy with. I don’t think he’ll ever be a dog that likes everybody but if he learns to tolerate most dogs it will be good. Humans, however, are never a problem – any shape and size – and that’s a great thing. We just had [daughter]’s birthday party and the house was full of little, loud, giggly girls and Mouse was in heaven. “Look at all the people who want to scratch my ears and rub my tummy!”

I’ll end on a funny story. One day Mouse was in the backyard and the boys had just come in from playing with him but Mouse wasn’t ready to come in yet. I looked out and he was out there running around throwing his ball up in the air and chasing after it himself (he does this when he’s not done and there’s no one to throw the ball to him). A couple of minutes later I saw him doing the same thing but he looked like he was having even more fun. I went to the door but didn’t see his green ball anymore and I couldn’t tell what was being thrown around. I opened the door and called his name and he stopped and gave me a look that only a mother knows. One that says “uh, oh – BUSTED”. He came running to me whimpering and then he stopped just short of the garden and gave a look toward a giant whole where my new flowering Camillia bush had been planted. Not only was there no bush, there was no remnant of a bush either. It was in hundreds of pieces all over the yard. I had to step away from the door so he didn’t see me laughing because the look on his face was priceless. I didn’t want him to think that he made me happy but it was hard to be mad at him because he knew he did wrong. He just got caught up in a moment and went a little wild and crazy – like he is. Meanwhile, a new bush has been planted and Mouse ignores it! He rarely destroys anything that’s not his so we’re very lucky.

Belle 11.10.09

Minor Cheetah update

I don't have much information but after visiting multiple homes on Foster-To-Adopt and being returned every time, it appears that Cheetah is about to have an adoption finalized. She has not been with me in a couple of months and in the last few weeks I have been letting the Rescue handle it. So I don't know much except it is a couple nearby and they have grown "very attached" to her and it sounds like a two-way street. I will wait to contact them until a final decision is made. This is a huge relief to me as I wake up worrying about her every day.

Schroeder update 11.5.09

Schroeder has grown to a nice size, still long and lean. Not sure if he is finished growing. He has good days and annoying days. He likes to eat deer, rabbit, and goose poop any chance he gets. He also has discovered that rolling on anything that smells is great fun. Like a typical teenager some days he listens to commands( like come )and other days I call him he will stop and look at me think about it a second , and then decide. He loves going to the dog park to see his friends. Schroeder likes to wrestle when he plays, I think he is finally learning that not all dogs want to play rough. He still is not sure about children, he is a little afraid of them but is getting better. I started using the the gentle walker on him because he was pulling alot, and he is very strong. When the harness is on he will not pull. He still will grab the leash and want to play tug of war, he also picks up every stick, plastic bottle, trash along the way. Schroeder has also discovered squirrels. Schroeder seems to find joy in everything and thinks life is a big game, he seems to have a sense of humor.

announcement

So I have a little announcement to make.

This is the reason I have been feeling so craptastic and haven't been posting much.

Note: if you are friends with me on facebook, please do not mention in that forum yet.

Lexy 10.27.09 RIP

My sweet little Lexy went to sleep tonight at around 5pm. She had multiple seizures (6 within 2 hours) and was in kidney failure. They brought her to me in the hospital and she looked at me and went to sleep. She opened her eyes once more when I told her goodbye and then drifted off peacefully. She was my companion when I had no one - she literally kept me alive during my darkest hours. I can't express how much I will miss her. I will never forget how soft her fur was and the feel of her curled up next to me. And I can still hear her harmonic purr - it was something to hear.

Maddie 10.23.09

Just a quick note to update you on Maddie. She is doing fabulous as always. I have to tutor a sick student on Mondays, so Mad gets to go to "grandma's" house for the day and play, play, play. Sometimes I think she would rather live with my mother since she is retired haha. However, I wanted to let you know what a sweetie she is. I have been home sick with the flu, and Maddie has been such a good and loyal dog. She has been laying with me on the couch with her head on me being the big cutie that she is. She is a great dog and I am so happy to have her.

Recent Mocha pics

Recent Mocha pics

Maddie pics

Lexy

I have been struggling with feeling not so good and that is why I have not been posting. But I am all riled up now and want to tell you how Lexy is doing.

2 years ago Lexy had a brain tumor. That big light spot you see in the MRI is the tumor. She was literally at death's door so we had emergency surgery performed as well as follow up radiation. $15,000 later she recovered almost 100%. It was an amazing turnaround.

Last Monday night (10.12.09) I was convalescing in bed and heard a strange scratching sound. I just knew something was wrong and as it turned out Lexy was having a seizure. We wrapped her in a towel when it was over and raced her to the emergency room - same place that treated her for the brain tumor. They kept her for two days and did scads of tests on her and determined that she had elevated liver and kidney values. The type of brain tumor she had 2 years ago does not typically cause seizures so the neurologist thoughtfully is trying to spare us another $1900 MRI and wants to pursue the liver values. So $3500 later we are home with 2 kinds of pills - one of which is ridiculously big to give a cat. We also brought her in wrapped in a towel and never got that back.

I took her back for a recheck today. She had another seizure on Friday, but other than that, she seems like she is OK. The neurologist took a look at her and explained his theories to me and said he thought her blood levels should be rechecked and she should see the internist. He doesn't want to prescribe anti seizure meds unless absolutely necessary because of potential side effects on the liver, which is already screwed up. So I left her there today and just got off the phone with the internist, who redid the blood work but also had ideas about tons of other tests. One of them was a repeat needle aspirate of her liver because they didn't get a proper cellular sample the first time. This is where I got pissed. I said let me get this straight - you want to stick a needle through her stomach and charge me another $300 because someone over there was too inept to get a proper sample?

It was explained to me that it just happens that sometimes the samples are good and sometimes they are not. So - I say - it is quite feasible that you will jab her in the abdomen again, I will be up to $600 for this particular test - and it will still be useless?? Ummmm yes.

At this point I had just had it. She went on to say they would probably recommend a full liver biopsy, which is full on surgery. I said no f'ing way. She is eating normally, she is not showing pain, she is using her litter box. She is jaundiced and has had two seizures and you have done about $4,000 worth of tests that tell me nothing. No one is in the same financial position they were in 2 years ago and we can't bleed money like this. START TREATING HER. If it works, hey you got it right. If it doesn't, try something else. (This is my fabulous theory after watching years of House.) So that is what we are going to do. We're now up to three pills and waiting to see the results of the blood work.

And I want my damn towel back.

Poppy blog update 10.14.09

http://www.friendshiptails.com/2009/10/benefits-of-raw-food-diet.html

Good article on rehabilitation

How to Help Your Fearful Dog: Become the Crazy Dog Lady

love this

Someone sent this to me. Really puts in perspective yes?

Dear Rescuer,

Please help!!!! After two long years of being on a waiting list for an agility dog, we have been notified by the breeder that, at long last, our number has come up and ...WE ARE HAVING A PUPPY!!!

Unfortunately, we must get rid of our children IMMEDIATELY because we know just how time consuming our new little puppy is going to be and it just wouldn't be fair to the children. Since our little puppy will be arriving on Monday we MUST place the children into rescue this weekend!

They are described as:

One male - His name is Tommy, Caucasian (English/Irishmix), light blonde hair, blue eyes. Four years old. Excellent disposition. He doesn't bite. Temperament
tested. Does have problems with peeing directly in the toilet. Has had chicken Pox and is current on all shots. Tonsils have already been removed. Tommy eats everything, is very clean, house trained & gets along well with others. Does not run with scissors and with a little training he should be able to read soon.

One female - Her name is Lexie, Caucasian (English/Irish mix), strawberry blonde hair, green eyes quite freckled. Two years old. Can be surly at times. Non-biter, thumb sucker. Has been temperament tested but needs a little attitude adjusting occasionally. She is current on all shots, tonsils out, and is very healthy & can be affectionate. Gets along well with other little girls & little boys but does not like to share her toys and therefore would do best in a one child household. She is a very quick learner and is currently working on her house training-shouldn't take long at all.

We really do LOVE our children so much and want to do what's right for them; that is why we contacted a rescue group. But we simply can no longer keep them.
Also, we are afraid that they may hurt our new puppy.

And would you believe, that on top of that, my husband has developed a severe allergy to the children. His eyes begin to water and itch as soon as he comes into the house. His asthma has been out of control ever since our second child came along.

Vicki & Vivian - conclusion

Well, they gave them under 48 hours to entirely turn around with the new regimen before they gave up. They are surrendering them back this weekend. I am pissed.

Case study - Vicki and Vivian

So my reputation is slowly spreading and I am getting more experience with behavioral issues outside of my own fosters. I thought I would share a recent problem posed to me and see what you guys think. Vicki and Vivian are twin mystery mixes (we called them shepherd mixes but they are really too small) that we adopted out a month or two ago. Vicki is *extremely* people shy and Vivian is a bit better. I received an email over the weekend telling me that they haven't socialized to the family, Vicki seems to have adversely affected Vivian instead of the other way around, and they are not very well house trained yet. When they go outside, the hide under the deck and have also been getting out of the yard. Based on the way a few things were phrased, I keyed in on their routine and asked for a full report on that, as well as what they are eating, favorite treats and activities (which help to know in training). Keep in mind that I don't really know these dogs on a personal level. I'd be interested to know what you think of my advice.

Here are some excepts form the original email as well as responses to my questions:

The dogs have extended their pack to include [daughter] to the extent that she can bring them inside at the end of the day, and they sometimes come up to her during the day. Otherwise, they avoid the rest of the family.

Once we let Vivian and Vicki outside in the morning, most of our family is not able to engage with them until [daughter] brings them in at the end of the day. If we go out to the back yard, they bolt to hide under the deck. When [daughter] brings them in at the end of the day, they will head for their cage (where they sleep for the night). If they come out (when only [daughter] is in the area) they will bolt back to the cage when anyone else arrives (or at any noise). The boys and [husband] have been very gentle with the dogs, but this has not had any apparent result. [husband] and the boys attempt to engage with the dogs (for example, slowly moving to pat them while the dogs are in the cage or when [daughter] is holding them), but Vivian and especially Vicki are in full submissive mode if they can’t get away, and will bolt at the first chance.

We have attempted to take them on a leash for a walk, even just in the yard and just to do their business, but this seemed to be totally unproductive – they attempt to bolt, and when they find they can’t, they cringe and crouch and don’t move unless pulled.

What is especially disheartening is that the connections we thought we were making with Vivian during the first week have eroded. It seems that Vicki is influencing Vivian to be less trusting of us, rather than Vivian helping Vicki to be more trustful. For example, if Vivian does start to move to one of us, Vicki starts barking (at Vivian? at us? we can’t tell) and Vivian backs away.

Equally disheartening is that we have all agreed from the start to be patient, but we are not seeing any positive results – even tiny ones. We have followed the vet’s advice, such as having [husband] and the boys prepare the dog’s food, but to no avail.

We have some thoughts:

- The dogs may have a strong negative association with male humans.

- The dogs have a strong bond with each other and don’t need to form other bonds.

- The behaviors may have been established over a longer time than we first thought – our vet believes they are about 18 months old.

1) what do they eat?

Blue Buffalo dog food, adult dog variety. Morning and evening feedings per vet's advice.
2) favorite treats?

We have a variety of dog treats. We don't have a way to determine favorite treats. When they are in the crate we can give them a treat and they will eat it. Outside the crate, Vivian will come out to the edge of the deck to get a treat; Vicki will not.
3) favorite activities that you have observed?

When they are outside and we are inside, we have observed them running around the yard together. They clearly like barking.
4) can you give me a blow by blow description of their current daily routine including who is the human usually interacting and their usual reaction to each event in their day?

- Let dogs out of crate and outside in the morning ([husband] or [daughter]).

- Put food outside for dogs ([husband] or [daughter]). We tried to put the food inside first thing before they went out, but this made us nervous: (a) they wouldn't eat while they could see us and (b) they are not safely housebroken to the point that we trust them unobserved in the house.

- At some point in the day, [daughter] would go outside to attempt to interact with the dogs (sit, talk to them, try to cax them to come to her). However, Vicki has begun to associate [daughter] with being brought inside at the end of the day, and is not coming to her during the day.

- Boys or [husband] had been going outside to attempt to interact with the dogs, but this results in the dogs running under the deck. As indicated below, Vivian is less likely to come out than she had been, possibly based on Vicki's reaction.

- The boys put out the evening food, and go inside so the dogs will eat.

- In the evening, [daughter] will spend some time attempting to get Vicki inside; Vivian usually will follow. Sometimes Vivian will come in, but Vicki will usually not follow.

- The dogs will be in the sun room but will bolt for the crate or under the table if someone comes into the room.

- At bedtime, we close the crate.

Variations:

- We have tried taking the dogs out on a leash to do their business. Usually successful with Vivian; no point with Vicki (she will not do anything other then attempt to bolt or cower).

- Despite fixing our fence and inspecting for any gaps, the dogs have been getting out of the yard and into neighbor's yards. We are not sure how (for example, we don't know if they are fence jumpers or climbers, or if they found a very small gap that we can't detect). The good news is that they are staying in the area, and have even gotten back into our yard. The bad news is that they will not come to any of us when outside our yard.

Here is what I see. The dogs are alone all day because they are outside. The dogs do not place any value on interaction with the family because they get no positive reinforcement from it. The interaction they do have is forced upon them, and they have no safe opportunity to get used to being around the people. They have no structure and do not know what to expect from the people. So here is what I recommended as a first step. I think they will see results of some kind within a week from this approach.

Based on what you have told me, I think that the dogs would be better off on a more restricted regimen for a while. Right now they are outside and can do whatever they want. They have no motivation to allow you to get close to them and as far as they know - food magically appears in their bowls outside. I know you said they will generally not go on the leash, but if that is their only option, I think they will. They need to spend more time around people. I would full on crate train them. It will be a massive pain in the butt for a while, but I am pretty positive it will work. And you guys are so dedicated, I know if you just have a little success it will help immensely. So it would go like this:

• crate should be located where the most activity is in the house (at least to the extent that it is feasible)
  
• overnight in crate
• leashed walk in the morning* (*if one of them doesn't go, try again in an hour until they do)
• Bring some cut up hot dog or american cheese with you on the walk. Whenever one of them eliminates, say "good girl" in a high pitched upbeat tone, and throw ONE treat in front of the one who eliminates. If they will accept it from your hand, fine, but don't force it or it is not a reward. When you toss it, give them time to discover it. If they refuse it, just ignore it and go back inside. Repeat this process for every walk. Note: if they come to enjoy being on the leash outside, be sure to wait a little after they eliminate to go back in; otherwise they will associate going potty with going back inside and that could cause problems. However, if they hate being out there, take them inside right after they go as an added reward.
  
• after walk, breakfast in the house in a quiet place, but not entirely away from everyone. MAKE SURE THEY SEE YOU PUTTING THE FOOD DOWN FOR THEM. If they won't eat after 20 minutes, put them back in the crate (make sure there is water in the crate). No food until the next mealtime (exception if they go potty). **If you have an instance where they eliminate in the crate instead of when you take them outside, start feeding them in the crate and they will be less likely to do that. Maintain the 20 minute rule though.
  
• walk again 20 mins after breakfast
• back in crate
• it will depend on whether they are going to the bathroom outside as to how often you let them out. Initially you will probably have to let them out every hour or two. Once they actually go, every 3 or 4 hours should be OK. Start out with less time and increase it to see what they can handle.
  
• Once they go potty outside, let them have 20 minutes out of the crate IN THE HOUSE. If you can gate off a room that would be great. Keep them in your vicinity. Ignore them (or rather appear to ignore them) - do not try to interact at all. Let them make any overt gestures - this will take them a while.
• They must be watched at all times while they are out of the crate - if someone has an accident *and you catch them at it* startle them into stopping with a firm NO (or word of your choice - just be consistent) and get them outside (on leash) immediately. If you do not catch them in the process of doing it, just put them back in the crate and clean it up with an enzyme cleaner. If you try to tell them what they did wrong, they will have no clue even if it is 2 seconds after they finish.
  
• back in crate; repeat the letting out/activity in the house as necessary
• around dinner time; let them out of crate and walk as usual.
• upon return, repeat the process for breakfast. If they won't eat after 20 minutes, put them back in the crate. No food until the next mealtime.
• Evening walk before bedtime; 20 mins free time; crate for night.
• No one should ever, under any circumstances, reach into the crate for any reason. If they retreat to the crate during "free time" that's fine. Just shut the door after 20 minutes. Be sure not to slam it or smile at them (that is baring your teeth and scary for them).
• You may find that you have more success with walking one dog at a time. But play with it and see what works best.
  

If you would like, I can stop over on Sunday and show you some body language stuff for the dogs. Please let me know if that works for you and what times are good. Things that seem friendly for people (like smiling) are aggressive acts to a dog or at the least can be scary. If you have any questions about any of this, I can be reached tonight at ...

Belle update 9.28.09

Belle is doing great.

As promised, we are having long LONG walks everyday, she seems to like it, and again, she starts felling more confident, although sometimes she gets very scared about very simple things such a trash bags, weird big plants or even umbrellas (Saturday was raining so I pull out and umbrella from the closet and she cuddle down scared right away, so we walked without it) therefore I'm avoiding things that may scare her.

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I wouldn't completely keep things away from her she is afraid of. Just introduce them slowly and a teeny bit at a time. For example, now that you know she is afraid of the umbrella, maybe leave it out where she can see it once in a while. Once she seems ok with that. Pick it up and put it down when she is watching. Once she gets used to that, open it in front of her - maybe leave it out where she can see it opened for a while. Once she is ok with that, pick it up in front of her a few times. Once she is ok with that, open it and close it in front of her. And so on. Just teeny steps in amounts she can handle over a period of plenty of time. Otherwise she will never get used to it and chances of her never coming across an umbrella in her life are pretty slim! :-) Then eventually, when you take the umbrella out when you actually need it, she won't think it is such a big deal. Same kind of thing with the vaccuum cleaner and other things you notice she is afraid of. And if you can think of a way to make it into a game - all the better. You can reinforce with treats as well.
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Beside that she is really getting use to the place and of course to us, she LOOOOOVES being kissed and hugged, sometimes she kisses back and lately, sometimes, she follows more commands, but once she sees a toy, then she can't focus anymore, I know it is a matter of training and time.

I have to confess that I'm such an easy mom, yesterday, she just "upgrade" herself to nap on the couch, and I let her be, little by little she is gaining some space toward her boundaries but at the same time she's getting use to obey other unbreakable rules, such as not jumping or look for food over the oven (never) or chewing furniture (she tried), chewing our clothing or sleeping on our bed, somehow we are getting along with each other, we like her very much.

Yesterday she was very cute, I gave her a shower and she behaved very well, after I dried her hair, she started jumping and running all over the place very happy and exited, after all her running she decided to take a nap. She seems happy to me, and we are really happy to have her.

Maddie update 9.28.09

** Note - my blog posts are likely to be a little spotty until about Halloween. After that I expect them to return to normal. **

No big news here. Since school has started again, Maddie has not eaten, chewed or gotten into ANYTHING and we are shocked/thrilled. I think she sleeps the whole time because when I come home around 3 she usually yawns and looks like she woke from a coma.

We have a little routine going where I take her for her 4 mile walk...that includes swimming in the creek and playing at the dog park. She is still weird around some people and then friendly as ever to others. Dogs, on the other hand, she still loves. Any size, breed, age, male or female...she loves them all.

Hopefully I will have some exciting news. I'm not sure what she weighs, other than I can't pick her up. Thank goodness she willingly jumps in the bathroom (although this took months of rewarding her for doing so!)

She looks great and is a happy happy girl!

Belle update 9.22.09

Everything goes well with Belle inside the house, she seems happy and apparently is getting used to us, the only thing about it is that now she starts crying when we need to go to work, and cries very sadly as complain when we get back, I sincerely feel very guilty of leaving her by herself for so long, so although I do go on lunch time to walk with her, I am hiring a dog walker for Belle not to be alone for so long.

Another thing I wanted to mention, yesterday morning we were doing our usual walk, when all of a sadden a very aggressive dog came barking at us from one house's fence, the dog went insane trying to jump out of the wooden fence to attack us and Belle panicked horribly, first she went behind me and as the dog keep barking furiously at us, she started shaking very hard and getting is this weird position kind of cuddling with her legs below her body REALLY tense, when I tried to calm her she wouldn't listen to me at all, she keep shaking badly and as I was trying to take her away from that situation since she was cuddling as rock, it was impossible first for me to lift her, so I had to take her face and said "he can't hurt you, you're with me", so I put myself in front of her in a way that she could hear the aggressive barking without seeing the dog inside the fence. so she finally moved, but sadly, her confidence went down again, her tail is not coming up as it did before, now no matter where we walk, she just walks nervously fast with the tail hidden between her legs like escaping. Meaning, she is not enjoying the walk at all.

I am buying the book you suggested me today, but meanwhile, do you have any suggestion about how to make her feel better?

I will appreciate any advice.

{I am showing my response here as I feel it could be useful info to others.}

Belle would definitely prefer to be with you rather than alone. But rememebr that whining growling and barking is her only form of verbal communication. It doesn't always mean she is sad when she whines. She may be saying - hey I'd rather you didn't go - when you leave in the morning, but she does fine by herself. When you come back she is whining with excitement and joy so see you again - she's not sad at that point. Her mom does that too when she is excited. If you respond to her feeling guilty - she will pick up on that and do it more - either to elicit the response or because she feels you being sad and uncomfortable so she figures it is justified that she is concerned you are leaving. What I always did with her (and Cheetah) was to give them something fun - either a toy or a chew - and say in a very happy voice that it was time for me to go but I would be back and to have a nice time and be good while I was gone. Then I would quickly and confidently slip out the door. If you are able to do this consistently - eventually she will get the idea that when you leave you come back, and that there is nothing to worry about because you are happy and confident walking out the door.

I saw Cheetah this weekend (she is currently at a no cage boarding place where she has loads of fun). When I left she whined and barked like "hey you are forgetting me!" and I felt lower than dirt. I cried all the way home. However I guarantee you that she gave it about a minute before she moved on. Dogs live in the moment, so when you are gone she is not sitting around thinking how lonely she is or how awful you are for leaving her. She is probably sleeping. I would never tell you NOT to get a dog walker. But in these economic times, if the money is at all a concern, I can tell you that (especially if you are coming home in the afternoons to walk her) she does not NEED one.

As for the other dog, that is really unfortunate. It is going to take some time to build her confidence back up after a bad scare. It was a perfect response that you got in front of her and told her you would protect her. That increases her confidence and bond with you. And it did work - she was able to move. Now what you will need to do, beside avoid that path for a while, is make every outing really fun for her. Bring special treats she loves but does not otherwise get, bring a special toy she gets to have at certain times on the walk that she loves to play with and doesn't otherwise get (maybe the purple thing?). Then she will start focusing on you and the thing she wants and not think so much about how afraid she is. If you give them to her at certain times or places in the walk - that will give her a goal and something to look forward to after she starts to see the pattern. It will probably take a while, but that is what I would do. Also I would start working with her on some more complex training. Training is believed to increase a dog's confidence level. Teach her to look at you, target, sit and stay - that thing I gave you is helpful for that. The training should take place initially at home but as she gains aptitude you can start using it in more stressful situations to help focus her. The only other thing is do your best not to feel bad for her. Definitely reassure her, but don't feel sorry for her. Again, she will pick up on the fact that you are feeling bad and think she must be justified in being scared herself! Try to stay positive and happy and confident around her and that will help her a lot.

Belle night 4

Last night she slept again the whole night, this time I got her bed in the room and place her blanket in there, she was not happy first and she decided to go to the bathroom, I guess it is cooler, but later on she moved to her bed and cuddle in there nicely, this morning I saw her sleeping in her bed with her legs up, so it seemed to me that she was pretty relax and comfortable.

Today, we did register Belle at the ----- county today as planned so tomorrow we will be taking her to the doggy park for her to be off leash, and see how she behaves.

By the way, today I got more food and found the probiotics at pet-smart as you said.

This morning she found all the toys that came on her bag and she was very happy, especially with the purple heart that makes a funny noise, it was just like as having a two year old kid with one of those super loud music toys that usually parents get for them, a real non-stop, until she found another and decided to switch it. {she drove us crazy with that thing}

We had another visitor and she actually was OK, kind of greeting him before she started barking, she later brought her toy to the guy inviting him to play. She is very very smart so she is finding her place to hide stuff and when ever she wants to play, then she brings it to us, same thing with the leash, when she sees me putting my shoes on and my cap even before I take the leash, she seats close to the door waiting for me.

I like her very much, she is getting use to us and our place very quickly, every time any of us has to go out, when we come back she always receives us very happy, tender and full of love, same thing in the morning, she wakes up really happy and exited, ready to start another day, I am so happy to have her. Thank you very much for letting me have her. she is such a great pet.

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Belle night 3

Things are getting smooth with my girl, last night she slept the whole night straight without trying to go outside in the middle of the night, still, she tried the bed acting, in a more relax attitude, though, she was barking and complaining because she was not able to go up the bed, but no intent to bite us at all. She slept next to my bed over her blanket, that seats over a rug, no interest at all in her bed =-(

Today is her first day staying on her own half day, I kind of want to go now to see her already =o) before [husband] gets there, but she needs to get used to the place. By the way we moved all the birds to the laundry room so if she wants go down to the basement, she can, I made sure there where no things around she could chew or choke on. {they have a whole bunch of birds that Belle would just loooove to get a hold of.}

I have notice two things, one she loves balls, I guess she used to interact with that, any time she sees someone playing she wants to join and second, she is really scared about vacuums, yesterday I was about to clean up the messy seeds from the basement and as soon as saw me pulling the vacuum out she ran and hid, without me even connecting the things to the electric power, so I asked her if she was scare of that and I put it the vacuum away and then I went to pamper her, she was really scared, so I guess she has a bad memory from it.

I have to mention something else, seems to me that she does not recognized her Cuddlebug name, I believe it has to do a lot with the fact that me and [husband] have such a hard accent that the sound that come out is not the one she used to hear from you guys, so we thought about maybe giving a try to her last name Belle (because is shorter and our chances of messing up the sound of the word is smaller) we decide to test if she does something when we call her by the Belle name and actually she does, every time either one call her Belle, she stops what she is doing and comes to us. {obviously whatever works for them is fine by me}

cuddlebug update 9.17.09

You are absolutely right, we just came from a walk and literally as soon as we came in she started whining again that she needed to go out.

I don't think is a bladder infection, she is actually, as you said working me. Right now she is trying to sit on my lap while I am working, kissing me and everything, she is very smart so I have to be more careful otherwise I will become her slave, I am just concern that if I do not take her out she will pee inside, that could be a problem because she could get use to manifesting her frustration that way.

I will give a second thought to the walking dog girl, tomorrow instead of [husband] staying full day with her, I will ask him to come back from work around noon, just to see how she does half day on her own.

Cuddlebug second night 9.17.09

Last night it was a little better, I gave CB a long walk and we ran for while over the grass behind the last set of townhouses behind our house, before we went to bed, also I made sure she did all her duties, that way nothing could happened at home.

By the time we went to sleep, immediately she jumped again over my bed, so I did as you said, I pointer out the floor ordering to go down, but she was determined not to, so I keep giving her the instruction repeatedly and instead of trying to bite me as the night before, she started rubbing her face on the pillows, roaring and rolling like saying "come on, don't take me out of here"... , she was sincerely sooooo cute that I almost laugh, but I didn't, so she kept doing funny sad eyes, and rolling around the bed, but little by little she was approaching to the end of the bed until she just gave me this super sad look and jump out and walk around just complaining with a few noises, she was OK after a few minutes. I know, she is pushing her boundaries.

After that she sleep next to me (I put her blanket next to my bed), around 3:00 am she asked me to go outside, so we went to the backyard, where she pee and came back to room to continue sleeping. This morning she walk up around 6:30 am again and asked me to take her outside, she looks very comfortable going to the backyard, so I am trying to pay attention once she lets me know she needs to go. Speaking about the backyard, she found some fascination for the fig's tree, she finds very fun pulling figs from the tree and running around with it on her mouth, she does not eat it, she just chews it and throw in the air and then catch again, she really enjoys it.

I stay with her today again, [husband] will stay home tomorrow, that way she does not get just used to me. Yesterday she received [husband] very happy by the way, jumping here and there much much friendly. Later on we had a visit ([husband] invited his sister to met CB) ... first she barked at this lady, but the lady appear to be familiar with dogs (I sincerely didn't know) and she manage the situation pretty well, first she ignore CB, then she allowed CB to smell her, later on CB was on her lap kissing her ( :-/ took me longer to gain her [acceptance]) anyway, what I saw is that she can be very friendly and sweet, and that under supervision, she wouldn't harm anybody. I think.

So far I am setting her up for 2 long walks (40 minutes each) one at 7:30 am another at 6:00 pm, and three small walks (20 minutes each) during the day,noon, three pm and 9 pm. Eventually I will change those long walk for runs, yesterday she sleep for a few hrs after her first long walk in the morning, maybe because she didn't sleep well the night before, but today she was full of energy after the long walk, she was jumping here and there playing with her leash, which tells me she needs a more consuming energy exercise, I want to wait because of her surgery, but I may need to start running with her over the weekend.

A cool detail about the short walk is that she is getting familiar with the area and sometimes, for little short periods, her tail gets

more relax and she weaves it up happily until she gets a little scare again and the tail goes down, we are walking the same path, that way she can recognize where is her home, and she will get familiar with all the noises around. For the long walk, she still get anxious, when she get nervous she crouches in front of me so I need to get her use to go in just one side, I had been close to follow over her more than a few times, because any sudden noise get her very scare, so she tries to go behind me coming either in front or between my legs. The long walk is an extended version of the short, half way we pass the same houses, meaning she is more comfortable and then we go behind the golf course, where we get some more noises, either from barking dogs, cars passing by, and even people chatting or working on the street, so there is when she struggles a little more.

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By the way, she really is into ripping stuff, there is no toy that can survive more than half an hr before is chew out, but the cool thing about it is that she is chewing just toys, I saw her just once walking with one of my

socks in her mouth, but once I said no, she just let it fall from her mouth and continue walking like nothing happened.

Last thing, (I hope I am not overwhelming you with this longs e-mails) [Never!] It seems to me that she can't hold her pee for more than 3 hrs, so since I can come once at lunch time to take her out, I am planning to get a dog walker, for her to come around 11:00 am, then I would come around 2:00 pm and last [husband] is usually here around 5:00 pm.

Cuddlebug first night 9.16.09

Good Morning Melanie

After we went to the basement when you guys were leaving she came up right away looking up for you, she went upstairs, downstairs, upstairs again, so I a got a toy and a few treats for her to calm her down so we went to the backyard to play for a while. Then she had dinner around 7:00.

She barked at [husband] for a while but later on she started getting a little close to him. She is really playful, so [husband] played with her for a while and she got more comfortable.

She was OK until 8:00 pm, after that she started making this soft crying and just going close to the door like she wanted to leave, so we took her for a soft walk (we changed the collar) just for her to see and get familiar with the area, after the walk she calm a little bit.

The only unexpected incident is that by the time we went to sleep, she wanted to sleep on my bed, she jumped on and got a little aggressive when I asked her to come down, she kind of wanted to bite me, I got her down, and she jumped again trying to stay in my bed and trying to bite me in a more aggressive matter.

So I brought her blanket next to my bed but she still wasn't happy, by the time we turn the light off, she walked around our bed and suddenly I smell something funny, she poop twice around the bed.

=-(

I assumed she was upset and it was her way to complain, so I clean up, show her what she did I said it was wrong what she did and I went back to sleep (she knew she did wrong because her face was kind of guilty, expecting to be punished, but as I told you I do not hit dogs... so we went back to the room), she sleep next to my bed, she woke up about every two hrs almost all night, so I had to pamper her a little bit for her to relax and get back to sleep.

This morning we took a walk, a longer walk, (I needed to see how much walking does she need for her to be relaxed while I go to work) she did great! when we came back home she sleep for about an hour, now she is getting a little more active so we will be getting for another walk in about an hr.

Another thing is that sometimes she cries softly, I guess she miss you guys, to many changes for a really short period. I hope she really feel better soon.

Mocha in the cone of shame

Mocha and Cuddlebug

I apologize I have not been good with the updates - haven't been feeling well.

Cuddlebug went to her new home on Tuesday 9/15. She is doing OK - testing all of her limits to see where the boundaries lie in this new place.

Mocha had her spay surgery the same day and is a walking lampshade now :-) She is not loving that. But it sounds like she is doing pretty well. She was pretty drugged out so I'm just waiting for the latest report.

Again, sorry for the lack of updates. I will be better about it as soon as I am feeling better.

The Rescue Challenge is back

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webcam is up and running again

I can't guarantee you will see Cuddlebug, but if she walks into the living room you will. http://www.ustream.tv/channel/pell-mel-foster-puppy-cam

More updates soon.

For the record: not mine ;-)

Maddie improving

horray!

From Maddies' Owner:

So, I ordered that book you sent an email about not too long ago, haha. I haven't read the book but have read excerpts about Maddie's insecurities when she meets new people. Sometimes, she runs up to people and wants to lick and jump on them. Other times, she barks and acts like the person is going to attack her family. She has been much better since we've been giving people treats to give her. We tell them to deny the treat to Maddie until she allows them to pet her, and it has really helped a lot. Sometimes she falls for the person so quickly that she makes a best friend in seconds. However, there are still times when "non-dog" people don't get it and Maddie continues to bark at them...which just upsets them even more. We are working with her, but she has shown a lot of improvement.

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Most of the puppies are exhibiting some form of this fearfulness with people right now. I used cut up hotdog myself with CB when her adopters came over and it did help. I am so glad to hear it is working for others as well! The book is set up very nicely so you can skip around if you don't have the time or the patience to read it cover to cover. I should be getting commission on the sales of this book for the number of times I have recommended it!! :-)

Cuddlebug the Power Chewer

Cuddlebug has managed to chew through the faux wood on (kind of a crappy) filing cabinet of mine and I would her walking around proudly with the caster wheel in her mouth last night. The cabinet was not a big deal but I was surprised she would still do this. It is easy to forget that she is still 100% a puppy.

I asked for some advice from other puppy owners regarding whether to give them rawhide. Mouse's owner says yet but is careful about the shape so that there is less danger of splintering. She also gave me some advice about stugging a kong with peanut butter and freezing it. I will be forever grateful for that one - it went over huge. I had heard of it before but had not tried it because I was afraid of getting peanut butter all over my house. She assured me the pb would be gone before it could possible hit the floor - and she was absolutely right!

Ashley, the veterinarian, had this to say about rawhide:
My view on rawhide is that it is fine to give provided you follow common sense and a few guidelines:

1 - Keep the size of the rawhide and the size of the dog similar. You don't want to give a tiny dog a huge bone and let her eat all of it at once. Conversely you don't want to give a huge dog a small rawhide which he could potentially choke on.

2 - Always be with your dog when they are chewing on a rawhide, that way if they are eating too quickly or start choking you can do something about it.

3 - A holistic vet told me that most of the rawhide sold in Petsmart is made in China and has been found to have arsenic in it. True or not I find that off putting so I usually look for something made in this country, organic is good too.

Chewing on tennis balls is bad as it grinds down their teeth. Nylabones are OK (some reports that if they are too old then they break off in big chunks which can cause obstruction.) Kongs and Petstages toys are great.

I have a couple of Power Kongs for Cuddlebug. She is much more interested in ripping things apart. She is also not acting like she is used to having limits. We are teaching her that she does not always get what she wants by grabbing, barking, whining, lunging, jumping, etc and she is RATHER shocked by this!!!

We got a good look at her fear response yesterday when her potential adopters visited. I really liked them. But she went nuts - she wasn't as bad as Cheetah used to be, but her body language was very fearful and she barked a LOT. She is more vocal than Cheetah - which I never would have thought possible. But she did not lunge or nip and the adopters handled it very well and were very patient. Mr PM said later - he would've been outta there if a dog we were looking to adopt did that! I am not sure I would've been outta there but I certainly would be cautious. But they are willing to work with her and they are calm and gentle with no kids and I think will offer a great environment. I offered to start using a differnt name with her, as she does not seem to know her name (so I reverted to Cuddlebug or CB ("SEE-Bee") when talking to her), but they like Cuddlebug! So looks like she is getting her old name back. We do have one more adopter to meet, but I am relatively certain these are the people.

I had the webcam up and running the other night - I wish there was an automatic notification sytem when it is broadcasting and when it is not because it will be spotty. But I took video of CB and Cheetah playing and it is on the channel.

New Foster cam

When I am sitting in there, you will see Cheetah and Cuddlebug at play. At least until tomorrow when Cheetah is off to a different foster.

http://www.ustream.tv/channel/pell-mel-foster-puppy-cam

Maddie 9.3.09 pics!!

Maddie update 9.1.09

Hello hello!

I read the blog about Mouse...a boy! I thought for sure that he/she was a girl. What a little cutie anyway. I don't have a scale here (I live with 3 other girls and we would like to keep the house scale-free, haha) but when I go to my parents in the next week or so I will weigh Maddie. She has FINALLY started filling out. She has been so skinny up until this point. Now she is looking much meatier and is losing her cute puppy face. However, she still has a cute dog face!

I went back to school Monday, and Maddie seems to be adjusting great (knock on wood)! I guess she chews her bone or hangs out most of the afternoon. As long as it isn't the coffee table or my carpet I'm okay with that! Maddie has not had an accident since the beginning of the summer, and that has continued thus far. She is super happy when I get home, but having her is good for me because it forces me to leave work rather than stay in my classroom. She has been such a joy here at the house. The roommates just love her and it's hard to believe she has only lived with us for a couple of months.

We have dog play sessions, as the neighbors behind and next door got puppies the same time as we did. However, Maddie has outgrown them and definitely lets them know she is the big girl when they play. She is bossy but still likes to share her toys and puppy pool.

Anyway, no big news. We just wanted to send you an update!

And the winner is...

So It seems like most of you think Mouse is probably female. To the naked eye, I would've been the first to agree. In fact, I keep referring to Mouse as her, even though I now know that Mouse is genetically male!!! Quoting Mouse's owner:

He is a male psuedo hermaphrodite which means he looks female on the outside but is male. The organs removed from him were very small, very inconclusive and not totally identifiable. The biopsy confirmed his true gender.

Over the last several months we've tried not to be too gender specific. We always said "good Mouse" instead of "good boy or girl" - but we did say she when we spoke of him. Even though we could continue with that (because quite frankly it won't make a difference to Mouse!), we're trying to switch to "he". It will be better in the long run because every time we said "she" we'd know in the back of our minds it wasn't really true. Don't ask me if any of this makes sense....

The last two weeks have been a real challenge though - trying to keep Mouse quiet and inactive after surgery. Because of his uniqueness, he had to have more invasive surgery then a normal male (more like a female I suppose) so running around couldn't happen. I guess nobody told him that he was supposed to feel bad for two weeks because after three days he was ready to go. I've had to use the e collar (aka cone of shame) just to limit him a little. Anyway, we're almost done.

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Mouse is fine around kids, he's just very exuberant. We do have smaller kids come into the house - [child]'s friends are 9 and under, so until I can get him to stop jumping up when he greets someone, I keep it very controlled. He doesn't know his own strength and doesn't understand that not everyone wants their faces licked (the little ones are just the right height!) and that when he falls on his back and whines, he needs his tummy rubbed. Now the teenagers that come in handle it better but we do intercede to cut hellos down to a minimum. If he gets too excited, he still "piddles" his greeting which can get old after the first or second guest. Last night [child] (16) had about 10 kids over and Mouse got to greet the first three at the door. The next couple had to say hello in the kitchen when Mouse had calmed down a little. He's allowed to be at the gathering for a couple of minutes but unfortunately, if he were allowed to stay, he would be too much the life of the party - lamp shade on his head and all. He's a riot, but he's a lot of work. I have very good helpers though. The kids are committed to training and exercising. Mouse is "mouthy" at times, especially when he's tired or hasn't been exercised enough. I know he'd never bite us but we don't accept it from him. It's probably one of the hardest things we're dealing with right now.

Sounds like Mouse is right in there with the rest of the teenagers! I might be contacting them for some advice once Belle is in the house!

Charlie update 8.31.09

I got a quick note from Charlie's owner this morning that he is doing well, despite his fair share of teenage moments. Like the other pups, he recovered quickly from his altering. There may be some pictures to follow soon! Oh, he's about the size of Cheetah now.

Sadie, Cheetah, Belle and Swiffer update 8.30.09

I saw Sadie today and she is like a different dog. She is so much more confident, she has some meat on her bones and she wants to play with the other dogs. She has that doggy sparkle back in her eye. What a difference from the tail tucked entirely under her, wouldn't stand up, emaciated little thing I first met.

I have to tell you, Cheetah was pretty cute with her. There were a good 15 dogs or so in the enclosure today and if someone got too rough with Sadie, Cheetah took it upon herself to herd them right away from her. Cheetah was the enforcer generally. If someone was barking too much - she would get right in their face and bark once sharply and back away. It was as if someone whistled through their fingers (I always wished I could do that) bc that dog would be shocked right into silence. It was fun to watch.

Cheetah was unamused that I was with Belle today. She did not like that one bit. I am HER person and that is that. She has been staying the last few days with Kristina, head of the rescue, to give this household a break. She has always like Kristina and literally (I kid you not) rolled down the car window and jumped out when she saw Kristina when I was dropping her off. Luckily I was going about 1 mph and she was leashed by her harness as opposed to her collar. I was able to release her from the seatbelt quickly and Kristina grabbed the leash with Cheetah none the worse for wear. I usually keep the child locks on the windows bc while she has never jumped out, she has done the roll down the window trick before (damn smart dog), but I had rolled down the front window to talk to Kristina so the child lock was off.

Anyway, she was herding dogs away from Kristina too when she was in the pen. She is crapped out on the floor right now - busy day of protecting everyone for her!

Kristina said she did awesome at her house and wasn't even territorial! Woo hoo! I declare her cured. I think she really would do best in a household with another dog. So Cheetah will be with me for this week, and then Sat night she is going to another senior foster's house so I can take Belle, who needs me more right now.

Back to Sadie, she has had all of her bloodwork and this week has the actual heartworm treatment. This treatment is painful so please keep her in your thoughts. She will also be on pain meds for her hip - I spoke to Kristina about it today. And we are investigating specialists to work on her leg. Our goal is not to amputate, but follow Ashley's suggestion of the procedure with the big long name that will stop bone from rubbing on bone. She is already functioning with the leg. The musculature has healed around it and she has figured out how to work with it. So we just want to deal with the pain it must be causing her. My guess is that it would be cheaper to amputate, but no one really wants to do that.

So Belle. She is a tiny little thing! She's only 35 pounds and looks so little to me next to Cheetah. She is smaller than the other puppies I have seen as well. She is cute as a button and I know there will be a ton of interest in her. As a matter of fact, we already had one application! (3 kids though). I spent about 20-30 minutes with her just getting her used to me, and before we were done, she turned her back to me (I was flattered by this!) and she jumped into my lap and licked my face. So we are buds. I brought chopped up hot dog with me to offer as a high value treat, but she was slow to accept it. She did finally eat out of my hand and we started some basic targeting training. She is not super food motivated, which will make training a little more difficult. But certainly not impossible.

She is very fearful, but not as bad as Cheetah was, nor as reactive. Add to that that she is younger, and I am very confident that I can get her where she needs to be. Here is my plan:

1. Get her spayed ASAP. Her owner was advised by her vet to hold off bc she was so skittish. I don't agree with that evualtion, but regardless, I am of the opinion that now, hormones are exacerbating the situation. Plus, it needs to be done.
   
2. Once she is spayed I can take her to an off leash park - I found this helped Cheetah immensely. Fearful dogs are often more fearful on leash, bc they can't run away if they are scared. This can mean they feel they have to defend themselves, which is never good.
3. Change her food! She is currently on Puppy Chow, a corn based dog food. We have discussed before how corn can block seratonin uptake in a dog, increasing anxiety, fear and aggression. The Rescue has changed over to Blue Buffalo - to which I say BRA.VO. Cheetah has been getting Solid Gold, but I will probably switch Belle to Blue Buffalo for consistency. We'll see how I feel when I go shopping :-)
4. I will start a basic obedience regimen with her. This will cause bonding with me and increase confidence. It will also help me to control situations better and distract her more effectively when we are facing her fears.

Swiffer is still limping :-( We are still on pain meds and I have scheduled an appointment with a different vet in the practice for Saturday. My biggest fear is that she has an injury which is healing improperly. We will likely need to do some x-rays next. She and Lexy had a very nice break while Cheetah was visiting. Lexy followed me from room to room like a dog and Swiffer did too, come to think of it :-)